Distrust

Distrust drains energy and goodwill. Instead of solving problems or building momentum, teams and individuals become defensive and protective. The flows of information, energy, and value erode along with trust in the organization, its systems, and its processes.

Sometimes distrust is blatant, showing itself in the form of open disagreements, information being withheld, or people feeling the need to be guarded in their interactions and conversations. Other times distrust is more subtle, surfacing as hesitation to make decisions - or making them in total isolation.

Not all distrust is created equal, and it can originate in places you’d least expect. Broken promises or repeated failures to deliver on expectations are sure-fire ways to sow it, while other times it’s unfounded, born of assumptions, rumors, or incomplete information. The challenge lies in telling them apart so you can find and address the root cause instead of simply treating the symptoms.

What Does Distrust Look Like?

Distrust can show up in ways that are clearly visible, sometimes even disruptive. It can also lurk in the shadows, revealing itself only through weak signals and subtle patterns that people can feel, even if they can’t quite put a name on what they’re feeling.

Team members holding back information or keeping critical details to themselves.
Decisions are second-guessed reflexively, without constructive feedback or alternative perspectives.
Open discussion gets replaced by gossip, speculation, and the proverbial rumor mill.
Collaboration is replaced by performative alignment, encouraging passive-aggressive and avoidant behavior.
Nobody wants to stand out or rock the boat, knowing they’ll have a target on their backs if they step up or attempt to lead.

Why Does Distrust Matter?

Distrust is an absolute momentum killer. When people lose their ability to trust, it can bring any team or organization to a grinding halt. You simply cannot build anything foundational until trust is in place.

Every interaction gets clouded by doubt, slowing decisions and creating friction in relationships.
Energy starts to shift from solving real problems to managing perceptions, holding on to information, and protecting turf.
Open collaboration is not possible when people do not feel psychologically safe enough to be vulnerable and share ideas.
The credibility of the organization, its leaders, and its systems completely erodes, making alignment or shared purpose a pipedream.
Opportunities slip away when the perceived risk of taking action outweighs potential rewards that people can’t rely on to be there for them.

Where Does Distrust Come From?

Whether it is seeded intentionally or grows accidentally, distrust compounds over time if it is not addressed head-on. Rarely does a lack of trust originate from a single source, it typically emerges from a connected set of patterns, events, and perceptions.

Broken promises, unfulfilled commitments, and having the rug pulled out from underneath.
Repeated failures to deliver results without accountability or consequences.
Lack of transparency in making decisions or allocating resources.
Observable leadership behavior that contradicts the stated values or priorities of the organization — Fac quod dico non quod facio.
Persistent rumors, selective communication, or misinformation that creates uncertainty.

What Happens If Distrust Is Not Addressed?

Left unchecked, distrust doesn’t just sit still. It spreads, it hardens, and it becomes a part of the cultural fabric of an organization. Once it takes hold, it can take years to unwind and rebuild what was lost, if it’s possible at all at that point.

Collaboration grinds to a halt when people default to self-preservation over shared outcomes.
Strategic initiatives stall, if they’re ever launched at all, because key stakeholders do not believe they will be followed through on.
Even the smallest of issues can escalate quickly when nobody believes others are acting in good faith.
Teams operate in silos, hoarding resources and information instead of sharing them in the interest of the organization’s success.
The organization develops a reputation for being unreliable, destroying brand equity, hurting external relationships, and making talent acquisition and retention difficult.

What Does It Look Like on the Other Side of Distrust?

When trust is restored and maintained in an organization, people stop burning energy on protecting themselves and their personal interests, and start investing it in shared goals and objectives.

Information flows freely when people believe it will be used constructively and for the benefit of everyone.
Decisions happen faster with openness to diverse inputs and alignment around shared intentions.
Collaboration becomes genuine and organic when teams focus on solving real problems rather than avoid them.
Consistent communication and actions that match stated commitments rebuild credibility in leadership and processes.
Risk-taking and innovation emerge naturally in a supportive culture that treats mistakes as opportunities to learn, not reasons to punish.